You can dress nicely to impress a guy and still be a feminist. You can shave your arms and legs everyday and still be a feminist. You can be attracted to straight, cis boys and still be a feminist. There is no feminist handbook that tells you what you can and cannot do to be considered a part of that group. All you have to do to be a feminist is support gender equality. Tear down the stereotype that says feminists have to act a certain way to be considered one.